Bridewealth is recognized as vital in the reproduction and reconfiguration of Pacific environments and women play an integral role in this process. In contemporary Papua New Guinea (PNG), bridewealth is reconfigured by kin to acknowledge the considered actions of women as they enter into relationships with men. This paper will explore how women’s choices impact and influence their experience of these exchanges and determine the role of women and their kin as they undertake these practices. Here the author aims to understand how the social relatedness that frames bridewealth exchanges enables the practices of bridewealth to be used as a tool for recognition of women’s choices, autonomy and personhood.

Although women enter into relationships without initial kin approval, bridewealth practices converge ultimately with a women’s autonomous choice of husband. Wardlow suggests (2006:86) ‘bridewealth confers value and dignity on female gender’, and going beyond her observation, the author shows that bridewealth has been useful in achieving this in regard to managing and supporting social, kin and affinal relationships. This article will explore two cases, to identify what each tells us about women’s ability to act in ways that are beneficial to them and important to kin. The author shows how moral evaluations frame (pasin) and recognize (luksave) kin and social relationships that ultimately constitute their personhood.